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Well, you can't please everybody.
For a site that's been calling it as we see it for 7 years now,
we've accumulated a lot of commentary. We get a lot of thoughtful
mail from folks who think we have "something worth talking
about" on subjects as diverse as building
PC's, Astronomy,
Geology and Evolution, Gay
Issues, Poetry
and Creative writing, Cooking,
Photography,
the Outdoors,
"getting
a life" and Political
and Social Commentary.
When you draw almost a quarter of a million readers a year, it's
inevitable that a few will get as far as "I was born gay"
and mentally freeze up right on the old highway. La
Parola has a lot to say about gay issues. Our posture regarding
the Christian community is that everybody has a right to express
their opinion. But we won't
help others spread hate, falsehood, prejudice, or defamatory comment.
As a matter of professional courtesy we don't normally publish
letters from readers without their agreement. We make exceptions
for blatantly abusive and defamatory material. Our published policy,
posted on this site under our Copyright
page, states:
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From
time to time, SummitLake.com also posts unsolicited crank
mail, flames, and similarly offensive "gift" email.
This material is treated like any other "letter to the
editor" at newspapers and magazines. Even if we find
the material objectionable, if we find it newsworthy, we reserve
the right to publish it.
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Internally, we divide mail to Summitlake.com into at least 3 categories:
- reasoned arguments and civil opinions on any subject, whether
we agree with it or not
- professional hate mail, slanderous or defamatory falsehoods,
and hackneyed hate-mill propaganda
- letters from ordinary folks who just can't admit the real world
into their lives in any way, shape or form
- letters from folks who just write in to say "thanks"
because they found something they liked in over 800 published
pages and articles.
This page is for the third category
of mail. The second category is usually found in "Horror
Files". There is no "page" for the first category;
many of the most delightful articles hosted on this site are written
by people who first just wrote in to say "hello" and offer
a kind word.
If you disagree with us so strongly that you feel reduced to spreading
falsehoods or crude ad-hominem attacks, we'll help you out by airing
your irrational letter, complete with return address, whenever the
whimsey strikes us.
Letters on this page may be seriously misguided and out of touch
with reality. Or, they may be blatantly irrational and deliberately
offensive. We do not publish letters that threaten individuals or
classes of people with violence or deprivation of rights. (Actual
threats, if ever received, will be reported to your internet service
provider and ours, and to the local police.) If Summitlake.com makes
you hot under the collar, we suggest you cool off before responding.
Try one of our other departments for a while; you're bound to find
something you actually like.
As we said in "Horror Files", we do not want our readers
hounding or harassing individuals whose letters end up being posted
here. If we hear of it, we can always change this page so you
get blocked from reading it, instead.
You are not supposed to be that kind of reader. If you must write
(either to us or to contributors), please consider that if Miss
Manners wouldn't approve, we probably wouldn't either.
Once again: if you ended up in La
Parola by accident, and don't like what you see, go
read one of C.Bear's
stories or a Computers
article instead.
If you came here anticipating something to disagree with, we're
bound to please. If you have something disrespectful to say about
that, a careful reading should convince you we're heard it all before,
and can probably summarize your argument far better than you articulated
it.
La Parola and this "Rants
and Flames" page exist for one primary reason: to serve as
a safe space for genuine friends, and those who haven't yet learned
how to respond to gay baiters. We are not
a forum for the Christian Coalition, Traditional Family Values,
or any of the other manifestations of political guerilla warfare
action groups that have infested this country. In fact, this whole
website is
dedicated to the proposition that "my preacher says it's a
sin" has absolutely no relevance.
Gays and lesbians will in time win the same
civil liberties as all other Americans, whether you like it or not.
As for what you think of that, or us: by what double standard would
you expect us to respect your opinion, when your xenophobic "kingdom
of God" agenda would disqualify us even from expressing opinions?
Shame on you.
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for an ongoing debate in America about what kinds of rights
people might have, and about whether or which people ought to
"have" them. |
Alex Forbes 3-13-2002; last updated 10-14-2002
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October 4, 2002:
This year, spam and virus mailings have been so bad we no
longer download our own mail directly. We screen it on the
server and download only items we recognize. And, we set up
the "write@summitlake.com" mailbox, mainly to see
if it draws spammers away from our personal mailbox (it doesn't).
Sometimes we just forward "write" mail to the personal
box when it is not spam. For better or for worse, the originator's
email address is lost in that case. We'll learn.
The two letters received this week are both from "aggressive
Christians" who obviously think they earn extra brownie
points for hounding people.
That ain't religion, it's just plain old bigotry and fear
of others who may think or be different.
For the record, it's no more illegal to publish email addresses,
than it is to mail out unsolicited rants to webmasters calling
them ignorant abominations. Both actions may be bad manners,
but it's protected first amendment speech. What goes around,
comes around.
If you think it rude to publish your letter and email address
without your "consent", the proper time to think
of that would be anytime while composing letters uncivil or
patently insulting to the intelligence, and before pressing
the "send" button.
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-----Original Message-----
From: write@summitlake.com [http://www.summitlake.com/cgi-bin/write.pl]
Sent: Thursday, October 03, 2002 4:34 PM
Subject: [Fwd: Site Status Log]
Good for Lisa and Tony!!!! We need more
people like them to stand up for the Gospel of Jesus Christ. All
of us have choices to make. When we make the wrong choices then
we must live and die by those choices. Only Christ can help us make
the right choices. Only Christ can give us life eternal.
Kathy
-----Original Message-----
From: write@summitlake.com [http://www.summitlake.com/cgi-bin/write.pl]
Sent: Thursday, October 03, 2002 4:34 PM
Subject: [Fwd: Site Status Log]
TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN: FIRST OFF
I AM NOT THREATENING ANYONE!!!! THE ONLY PERSONS THREATENING ANYONE
IS YOU...... AND YOU CAN BE TURNED IN TO YOUR INTERNET SERVICE PROVIDER
TOO. NONE OF MY LETTER WAS FALSE OR AN IRRATIONAL EITHER. I BASE
ALL MY LETTER ON TRUTHS FROM THE WORD OF GOD. IF YOU THINK BY SHARING
MY TRUTHS WITH YOUR READERS SCARES ME WELL YOUR WRONG!!!!! GO AHEAD
AND SHARE MY LETTER AND TRUTHS WITH YOUR READERS ....IN DOING THAT
MAYBE I CAN HELP SOME OF THEM TO REALIZED THEIR LIFE STYLE OF HOMOSEXUALITY
IS NOT WHAT GOD HAS FOR THEIR LIVES. THANK YOU FOR SHARING MY LETTER.
THE BIBLE CLEARLY STATES THAT LIVING A GAY LIFESTYLE IS A AN ABOMINATION
TO GOD AND IS A SIN. THIS IS AMERICA AND MY RESPONSIBLITY AS A CHRISTIAN
TO STAND UP FOR WHAT GOD HAS SHARED WITH US. AND AS FAR AS WHIMSEY
...........YOUR NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN SHARES ADDRESSES.........
THANK YOU FOR SHARING MINE WITHOUT MY CONSENT.............WHICH
WAS ILLEGAL!!!!! YOU CAN SHARE MY LETTER BUT IT IS ILLEGAL TO SHARE
MY ADDRESS WITHOUT MY CONSENT!!!!!! SHARING TRUTHS FOR GOD......LISA*LEE
-----Original Message-----
From: Lisa McCullough [mailto:lisaleehaha@msn.com]
Sent: Tuesday, March 12, 2002 10:11 PM
To: write@summitlake.com
Subject: YOUR SITE SICKENS ME!!!!!!
TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN: YOUR SITE SHOWS HOW IGNORANT YOU REALLY
ARE!!!!! WHY DON'T YOU FIND SOMETHING WORTH TALKING ABOUT.... YOIU
HAVE A FEAR OF CHRISTIANS AND ANYONE WHO STANDS UP FOR THE BIBLE
AND ITS CLEAR TEACHINGS ABOUT THE GAY LIFESTYLES. NO ONE IS BORN
GAY!!!!! IT IS A CHOICE THAT A PERSON MAKES!!!!! YOUR WHOLD SPILL
AND ATTACKS OF GOD FEARING PEOPLE SHOW HOW AFFRAID YOU ARE OF THE
TRUTH!!!!! SO GET A LIFE AND GIVE UP YOUR GAY LIFE OF SIN!!!!!
Until,
Lisa
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Subject: Sorry to hear about Matthew
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Hi My name is Tony Horton . I use to live
the life of a homosexual and now have a outreach called Christians
No Longer Gay Living For God. If you have any members that have
struggled with this or members that have family members in the homosexual
lifestyle please let them know about our site. Christians No Longer
Gay Living For God *Internet Outreach*
Thank you brother/sister for your love and concern for the souls
of all men
http://cnlglfg.com
IN HIS SERVICE,
TONY HORTON
-----Original Message-----
From: NMSU Library [mailto:library@lib.nmsu.edu]
Sent: Thursday, April 16, 1998 12:56 PM
To: write@summitlake.com
Subject: Horro Files Topic....
What a bunch of baloney. Too bad the web is full of junk like this.
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